I have been thinking lately, about friendship. I feel I have not been appreciating my friends enough, nor putting enough effort into maintaining some, or making new ones...Been anti-social lately, very anti-social...hehehe....Oh dear.
I have been stressed, and lacked sleep. But it is no excuse to neglect my friends, however patient they are with me (and they have been, they are so much like family now, and I love my family to tiny little pieces) (Oh, daddy called today, and my brother's piano playing has improved haha (This is big news, he's one of the slowest learners ever lol)! My uncle's cancer has spread though...and mummy was disappointed when I told her I spent Valentines with a group of singletons (sounds like skeletons @.@) haha...MUMMY!!! *Rolls eyes* I am an architecture student!!! Plus, I'm NOT mature enough!!!!
Oh this reminds me! Bible reading at home was 1st Peter 2:1-3 (Get rid of malicious behavior and deceit. Don't just pretend to be good! Be done with hypocrisy and jealousy and backstabbing.2You must crave spiritual milk so that you can grow into the fullness of your salvation. Cry out for nourishment as a baby cries out for milk,3 now that you have had a taste of the Lord's kindness.)
OUCH....
Anyway, I like this song because it is about serving others, and being humble and meek. And being kind to those who are weaker or less well off. It describes a character that I hope to achieve one day hehe....
Make Me A Servant
C Am7 Dm7 G7sus G7
Make me a servant, humble and meek
Dm7 G7 F/C C F/C C E7
Lord, let me lift up, those who are weak.
Am Am/G Gm/F# Fm6
And may the pray'r of my heart always be;
C/E Dm7 C/E F6/9
Make me a servant, make me a servant,
C/G G7sus F/C C
Make me a servant, today.
Youtube! Such a nice song to remind me to serve...Mark 10:45
For even the Son of Man came not to be ministered unto, but to minister, and to give his life a ransom for many.
2 Corinthians 4:5
For we preach not ourselves, but Christ Jesus the Lord; and ourselves your servants for Jesus' sake.
I had a good sleep just now, and suddenly I am wide awake. Sigh, my hours are messed up. I wonder how to put it into some semblance of order when we have crazy crits and submissions every week T.T Have to figure it out quickly or I may lose a couple of years off my life, I think.
Oh, a rather interesting subject suddenly popped to my mind just now. It's CHIVALRY. Hehe, severely lacking in most Singaporean guys I have met. Seriously. I mean, I may have been a little spoiled by Pastor Noah's training of YA boys, but SG guys are hopeless. It was submission day today, and we were carrying a lot of things over to the exhibition hall. There were lots of things. I can't help being reminded that if I were back in CEFC YA guys would be the ones offering to help carry things (at least, Pastor would make them do it, hehe: Guys, please carry your bags into the bus, and take the girl's things in too...) And this time, after I carted my things over (in two trips) I went and helped a guy carry his stuff over...Sigh...And got barely a thank you...
The roles have switched.
Maybe I haven't met enough Singaporean guys and this is a hasty generalization..but I do miss chivalry sometimes...hehe...maybe I'm just the romantic type (trust someone who quotes Romeo and Juliet in her blog to be such)...Anyway, I better go to sleep as I have to run around the school tomorrow (Why I signed up for the thing I have not the slightest idea.)
9 comments:
Haha, there are bunch of good ones. Just have to hang up with the right ppl.
Offer help without expecting anything, not even a thanks!!! I guess we Malaysian guys had gotten used to that kinda abuse... But YES, that's what some girls are like...not even a thankyou! So here is "real world" for you :)
Nothing personal, I must admit that you are definitely one who really appreciates, and will at least express it in words..:-)
Haha, reminds me of the guys in my church in Tampin. They once severely lacked chivalry, but once they started they can't stop, lol. I suppose they like the appreciation. Personally, I think if you're a guy (especially those who have been through NS and all...) it's too much not to help at all la!
Honestly speaking, the time when you can get the best out of friendship (in terms of fun and fellowship that is) is when your friends are single as well as yourself. Once the BGRs starts, priorities for friends sort of change. Haha.
Will miss these times when you guys are no longer... skeletons =P
Yeah, happy to be a nobody, at least for the time being!!!
psst...
Skeleton = no body
Right???
Gail:
Yeah, it's true! We should savor our single-hood...but I think I may want to have a relationship one day, hehe. I guess there is a time for everything! Just let God have His way! When we all stop being 'skeletons' (@.@) I suppose it will be another level of friendship already hehee...I hope we all remain close even after graduation! And relationships!
JanJon: No body? Hehee...trust JanJon to come up with this...
Jon's trying to be lame again? LOL
No body = no legs = lame ?!
(OK the same joke used twice is NOT funny =P)
Ya, the day we all stop being skeletons might be sooner than we think.
You only enjoy being skeletons as long as you're not the only one. And yeap I hope we all continue to care for each other like these even after we're not single :)
Haha, I guess that's true.
Yeah, once your close friends stop becoming skeletons, you begin to feel left out...and then you want to stop being a skeleton too.
I guess that makes the world go round! :)
You know, I am actually quite afraid of entering a relationship. I don't know why. O.o
Haha, same here Tirza! Yay, sisters think alike! ^^
Haha, afraid is good...Coz you might not know what you want in a relationship yet... And funny thing is you might get some things you didn't expect but not find the things you'd expect from a relationship... And that's not always a bad thing, except when....it happens to be a bad thing..:P
I wish both of you don't need to go through what I've been through, but isn't that what all parents wish for their children? only to realize that the best teacher in this world is experience, and the best solace is in God Himself??? Trust God, and He'll give you just as you deserve...which is more than what you expect... You'd be SURPRISED!!!!
Haha! Well said...
I don't understand as yet, but perhaps one day I will! :P
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